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Author’s Note: When writing The Journey to WOW, I tried to create a story that would be meaningful for everyone involved in creating a customer-focused organization. This is an excerpt from Chapter 17. In it, Maddy describes the attitude everyone needs to begin transforming a customer service culture.


โ€œSo,โ€ Madeleine said as they seated themselves. โ€œWhat have we learned so far today?โ€

Cameron looked down at his shoes for a moment, then up at her. โ€œQuite a lot, I think,โ€ he said quietly, โ€œbut I havenโ€™t had time to figure out what it means yet.โ€ He described to her the events of the morning. Madeleine listened intently.

โ€œItโ€™s frustrating,โ€ he said. โ€œI feel as though Iโ€™m getting to see a bunch of random pieces of a puzzle, but none of them fit together yet. I donโ€™t even know what the ultimate picture looks like. I know what Iโ€™m seeing is important, but Iโ€™m not sure what to do about them or how they fit into the big picture.โ€ He looked at Madeleine, who returned his gaze with an appreciative smile.

โ€œThatโ€™s a good feeling to have,โ€ she said.

Cameron raised an eyebrow. โ€œNo, really!โ€ she insisted. โ€œMost people already assume they know what the picture looks like, and then try to jam the puzzle pieces into places they think they should be – whether they fit or not. Then they hold their completed puzzle up for the world to see, jagged and imperfect, believing theyโ€™ve found a truth. It may be frustrating for you now, but when things do start to come together, you will at least be seeing whatโ€™s really there, instead of seeing the things you want to see.โ€

Cameron nodded. It was small consolation to his frustration, but it was something. He thought in silence for a few moments.

โ€œMaddy,โ€ he asked finally, โ€œwhen we first met and I told you about the books Iโ€™d bought, you said I was getting every perspective except one – the most important one. What is the perspective Iโ€™m missing? Thatโ€™s the key, isnโ€™t it?โ€

โ€œOh, VERY good question!โ€ Madeleine said, eyes twinkling. โ€œThereโ€™s hope for you yet!โ€ She checked her watch and began to stand.

โ€œNo, wait,โ€ Cameron said, grabbing her arm. โ€œI donโ€™t have time to play games. Telling me Iโ€™m asking good questions isnโ€™t helping me.โ€

Madeleine sat back down and turned to him. โ€œBut your questions are important.โ€ She was serious, and for the first time, Cameron could see the depth behind the brightness of her eyes.

โ€œBut I donโ€™t need questions. I need answers,โ€ he said. โ€œLook, I have to come up with a plan soon. This has all been very educational, and I have no doubt it will help. Right now, Maddy, I really need answers.โ€

Madeleine regarded him thoughtfully for a few moments. โ€œCameron,โ€ she said, tilting her head to one side, โ€œwhat size of electric motor goes in an appliance?โ€

Cameron blinked. โ€œWhat?โ€ he asked. โ€œWhat does that have to do with . . .”

โ€œIt has everything to do with our discussion,โ€ Madeleine interrupted seriously. โ€œNow tell me – what size of electric motor goes in an appliance?โ€

โ€œWell, it depends,โ€ Cameron said, starting to get a little annoyed, โ€œon the kind of appliance. I mean, whatโ€™s the size? What will the motor be running? How long will it run for? What are the loads? There are a lot of factors.โ€

โ€œCameron,โ€ Madeleine said slowly. โ€œI didnโ€™t ask you for questions. I asked you for an answer.โ€ She kept her gaze on him, expectantly.

โ€œBut . . .โ€ Cameronโ€™s mouth snapped shut as Madeleineโ€™s point hit home. He flushed.

โ€œCameron, thereโ€™s no point in trying to come up with answers until youโ€™re sure youโ€™re asking the right questions,โ€ Madeleine said. โ€œI understand your urgency, but the truth is, getting the questions right is ninety percent of the battle.โ€ She turned so that her whole body was facing him. The frills on her lace hat danced. โ€œCustomer experience and customer service are all too often taken for granted. People think that just because they recognize a good customer experience when they see it, they understand how to deliver it in their own organization.

โ€œItโ€™s like someone thinking they can bake a great cake just because they recognize one when they see it. Or someone thinking they can build a house just because they can swing a hammer. It doesnโ€™t work like that. Nor can you just find some kind of paint-by-number users guide to customer experience and apply it to any organization.

โ€œWhatโ€™s the term you corporate folks like to use? Oh yes – best practices – thatโ€™s what you call them. More like risky practices usually. I mean, they might have been a best practice for one organization, but they could be useless to another. A templated approach can only take you so far. People think of customer experience as being something simplistic, easy, uncomplicated. But if it was really all that straight-forward, why are so few organizations really good at it? Some people will tell you that itโ€™s just common sense, but thatโ€™s nonsense,โ€ Madeleine continued in earnest, her eyes boring into his. โ€œWhat seems to be common sense for one person might be seen by somebody with a different vantage point as the silliest thing in the world.

โ€œCustomer experience isnโ€™t a thing, Cameron,โ€ she continued. โ€œItโ€™s a perception. And it changes depending on the customer and the organization. If you want to deliver it, you first have to identify what it looks like.โ€ She paused and patted his arm. โ€œOnce youโ€™ve identified it, the answers youโ€™re looking for are much easier to see.โ€

Cameron looked up at Madeleine, and saw the earnestness in her eyes. There was a depth to this woman that transcended the eccentric clothes and quirkiness. He saw that now, too. And she was right. Despite the pressure from his CEO, there was no point in trying to come up with answers until he knew the right questions to ask. โ€œSo, what now?โ€ he asked finally.

Madeleine gave him a warm smile, and her eyes resumed their twinkle. โ€œWell,โ€ she said, โ€œfor starters, I think weโ€™ve waited here long enough.โ€

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